years in the past, i used to be congratulating a tender Muslimah on her engagement. She used to be delighted approximately beginning married existence and also you might see the happiness emanating from her as every person gave her their most sensible wishes.

A few months later, i'll inform whatever was once wrong.

After a few cajoling, she shyly admitted the reality. Her intercourse lifestyles was once terrible. actually, it was once speedy changing into non-existent. She have been a version Muslimah her complete existence. sooner than marriage, she had by no means a lot as held a non-mahram’s hand, not to mention develop into bodily intimate with one. She had eagerly seemed ahead to marriage as an opportunity to ultimately indulging in the entire actual intimacy she had postponed for the sake of Allah.

But it wasn’t working.

Coming from the clinical box, she knew all of the suitable biology. She might draw and label all of the elements of female and male anatomy. She had taken fiqh periods and knew the criminal rulings of menstruation and intercourse.

But she didn’t comprehend sex.

Oh, she knew the mechanics. Insert penis into vagina. Climax. Withdraw. yet she didn’t know the way to make her husband yearn for her in mattress. She didn’t be aware of what he beloved. She didn’t even understand what she beloved! that they had began eagerly yet after a number of weeks, discovered that neither of them was once actually having fun with having intercourse with each one other.

And so started my impromptu intercourse abilities workshop. I threw at her all of the details I’d amassed over years of marriage. issues I’d realized from event, tidbits I’d gleaned from neighbors, assistance I’d picked up from journal articles. something the following, issues there. All these bits had gathered right into a very fit and strong intercourse existence among me and my husband. I gave her every thing, fervently hoping that it can aid her in her marital life.

A month later, I observed her back. This time she had a big smile on her face. “Please, write this down and proportion it with different Muslim women. nobody teaches this. We’re thrown into marriage and in simple terms understand the fiqh and the biology.”

I wrote down every little thing I instructed her on a observe rfile and emailed it to her. She shared it together with her neighbors who have been newly married. They shared it with their neighbors. ahead of lengthy, observe trickled again to me that individuals have been asking me to write down a booklet at the subject.

So the following it is.

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Chapter List:

Introduction
Who is that this ebook for?
5 Myths approximately Muslim sex
The anatomy of female and male genitalia
Body picture issues
Genital hygiene
Birth Control
Kegels
Sexting
Kissing
Dry humping
Dressing up (lingerie, position play)
Lubricants
How to provide a handjob
How to provide a massage
How to do a strip-tease
How to provide a blowjob
Your first time
Sexual positions
Girl-on-top positions
Doggy-style positions
Face-to-face positions
Spooning positions
Lying in your stomach
Lying in your back
What to assert in the course of sex
How to be a freak in bed
Between-breast sex
Femoral sex
Quickies
Shower sex
Rough sex
Dirty talk
Forced intercourse fantasies
BDSM
Public sex
The basic things