have you questioned? * Why it is so difficult to get as regards to a guy. * Why do not males exhibit feelings other than colossal ones like anger and frustration? * Why such a lot perversion is male; why such a lot pornography is produced by way of males for males? danger taking is male; ingesting, drug taking, playing and infidelity are predominantly the protect of guys? * Why such a lot felony habit is perpetrated by way of males? Why nearly all of household abuse and violence is perpetrated by means of males? * Why males are so occupied with the scale in their penis and its symbolic substitutes - immense, robust autos, prestige, sizeable homes, sizeable cash, and large muscle mass? * Why cannot males tolerate vulnerability? * Why males lie, do not pay attention, do not do home tasks, parenting? The solutions to those questions, is the purpose of this publication. the writer asks what it potential to be a guy, and what half masculinity play in men's id. what's it wish to need to spend quite a bit time and effort in coping with that identification? Adam Jukes has spent such a lot of his expert lifestyles operating with bothered and disturbed males, and in 1984 he opened one of many world's first remedy facilities to handle men's abusive and violent habit in the direction of ladies, from verbal and emotional abuse via to stalking and homicide. within the following a long time that paintings built right into a medical exam of masculinity and the writer now stocks his insights and conclusions with the reader. Juke's conclusions approximately what constructs masculinity and the way it develops will be unpalatable to a few however it can be inspiration upsetting and fascinating to someone who has an curiosity in those concerns no matter if specialist or own, male or woman, spouse or lover, sister or brother, husband or father.